He’s hiding things from you. He wasn’t doing the work to repair the damage. He was sleeping with other women to feed his addiction, and hiding his truth. You were in solitude reading and learning and journaling to heal.
His kindness has a hidden agenda behind it that serves him.
The amount of effort required and what you get out of it will not be equal
He dangling a carrot in front of you with no actions behind it
He’s not able to focus on anything
He puts too much importance on sexual matters
He’s not putting any effort into getting to know this new version of you
He’s expecting you to continue being the old version of you on a lower frequency
He’s never had any education on what a healthy relationship looks like yet he has all the instructions to follow
He was influenced by toxic relationships growing up and that’s normal for him, but it’s not normal and it’s not sustainable and it will eventually take your life, your money and your family
It will reverse all the progress you’ve made and block your abundance
He’s deceptive
He’s not loyal he’s addicted
He feels you are naive yet you are an old soul who has lived 1000 lives. He is a young involved soul feeding off your light and not generating his own.
You will not be satisfied by this as he is unwilling to see another person’s perspective.
He persecutes you for speaking your truth.
Everything he does for his partner has an end goal of getting laid. He doesn’t offer real love, it’s codependency and addiction.
He plays the game of making you feel he is stable. He’s not stable and will drain your life force.
You live your life in multiple dimensions. He is focused on the 3D world and unaware of his negative patterns.
He is going to spend his life using media and food and work and sex to cope, while obsessive thoughts run his actions and his ego allows him to always be right.
He will never be successful in relationships until he stops running from his unhealed wounds.
He’s stubborn and unwilling to change.
He expects you to do his healing work for him.
