Today’s Premonitions ✨
A covert narcissist possesses the same core pathology—grandiosity, entitlement, and lack of empathy—as an overt narcissist, but conceals it behind a quiet, vulnerable, or victimized facade. Instead of openly demanding admiration, they manipulate others into offering it through guilt, passivity, and eternal victimhood.
Eternal Victimhood: They present themselves as uniquely fragile, misunderstood, or persecuted. Their suffering is always portrayed as deeper or more severe than anyone else’s.
Passive-Aggression: They utilize the silent treatment, coldness, or sullen behavior rather than outward rage when they do not get their way.
Disguised Criticism: Insults are masked as jokes, backhanded compliments, or expressions of "concern" to slowly erode your confidence.
Lack of Accountability: They avoid taking responsibility by projecting blame, rewriting history, or acting deeply hurt when gently challenged.
Vulnerability as Control: They weaponize emotional crises (sadness, anxiety, or stress) at crucial moments—like when you set a boundary or achieve success—to force you to abandon your plans and focus entirely on them.
And for me, they love bomb, then gossip. Involve others. Spread false narratives. Stalk. Disregard my desires for closure. Act as if I still want the relationship; I very, very clearly do not.
Destiny stealer.
When I say I can no longer be in this relationship, he dismisses it. I exit. He chases. Then he creates a gang of uneducated monkeys to assist him. Reels in innocent bystanders to monitor me. Tracks my moves.
He spreads lies about the true story behind what is happening. Paints himself as better than me. Plays the victim when in reality he is the perpetrator. Demands I return for HIS comfort. Dismisses my dreams and desires for my life.
He’s a true mad man.
I’m 1000s times stronger. And I have an army behind me.
His efforts will not accomplish anything.
He can’t have me. And he can’t stop me.
There are surprises in store for him. He’s walking into a trap.
Keep chasing. You will regret this.
It’s been dead done and over with for years.
I can’t be with you anymore. Once I discovered the truth about your evil ways, I can’t unsee it.
You are crossing a boundary that will lead you to very, very karmic consequences.
He’s much MUCH larger than you, and will have no problem knocking on the front door to get the dog back. Unfortunately, the toxic games you play made it unwise for me to do it. And it’s torture — but I remind myself you will experience heavy consequences for the choices you have made in your life.
Much aloha.
